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And then it happens, the most terrifying thing of all: you meet someone you actually really like, and that’s where the real difficulty begins.
You can see it there on the horizon – the whole “So where’s this going? The dating game has changed dramatically, and while it used to be as simple as a quick conversation along the lines of “OK, so we like each other, let’s make this official”, there is now a list of new stages in a fledgling relationship that can seem to make things more confusing.
One friend (who wishes to remain anonymous lest her non-boyfriend reads this) explains: “I’ve been seeing this guy for four months now – we’re dating and see each other a couple of times a week.
He clearly likes being around you, but making time for quality interaction means that weekend calls are probably few and far between.Fast forward three years and I am now at the start of a new relationship. The rulebook has changed, and the lingo is different from the last time I went down this path. Some say that my current beau (we are on date 7) and I are ‘seeing each other’. Personally I’m stuck in limbo trying to work out how not to screw this up, and what the hell the difference is. I got a few messages from men, and then some dates followed.When, in fact, do you become boyfriend and girlfriend? There was Rodger, who turned out to be 45, not the 37 he had promoted himself to be; Chris, the pilot, who rather cheesily offered to ‘show me the world’; and then there was Liam, the Probation Officer who lied about his height (he was closer to 5ft than 6ft).Everyone has different ideas of what’s right when it comes to dating etiquette.Some prefer to stay monogamous from the start, while others like to keep their options open, just as some view sex as something to be saved until the blossoming of a full-on relationship, while others need it early on to determine levels of chemistry and attraction.